Maybe you're solo because you up and moved to a new city where you knew no one, or maybe you're solo because you've just been through a breakup. Whatever the reason, if you just sit at home and wallow in self-pity, you'll always be solo. If there is one thing I've learned, it's that people don't miraculously appear out of thin air and ask you to come out and play. You've gotta do the leg work.
So here are my tips to not feel self-conscious while getting out and making moves..... solo!
So Veenie is my go to for walks downtown to explore Klyde Warren Park, trail walking at Katy Trail, or patio sitting on a Spring Sunday afternoon. You aren't solo with your best wing pup!
Walk with confidence. Walk as if you're walking to something specific, even if you're just roaming. Again, these are all things to make yourself feel better and more confident when you're out alone.
instagramming them as you visit!
Sitting at an actual table is not only uncomfortable when you're alone, but you're going to make your server mad by wasting their table of 4, on a 1-top. Sit at the bar and you'll have the bartender to talk to, televisions to watch and you won't feel like you're a waste of perfectly good space. Plus, the vibe is just better for a single at the bar!
So those are my tips for getting out and enjoying life, solo! What tips would you add that have made you feel more comfortable doing things by yourself?